Family Reunions

We survived (and thrived) during the recent Carter/Peabody family reunion. We held the gathering at Plymouth Rock which turned out to be a perfect location since we later discovered it is where the first Peabody (Frances) landed in 1635 aboard the Planter.

As a surprise, we hired someone to do genealogy research on Carters, Peabodys, and Taylors. Interestingly, all Stephen's first cousins (he's the youngest of 13 at age 65) claimed they had no family information. Once we called a couple of them with questions about family members, we discovered a few hidden gems that helped to fill in holes that the researcher had. At the reunion, we played 'cousin jeopardy' quizzing them on childhood memories (e.g., Grandma Carter's favorite cookie recipe), as well as genealogical information. When they were struggling to answer the family history questions, we pulled out the 143 page family tree document as gifts.

Amazingly, 70 relatives assembled for this event. The eldest, Charlotte, was 78 (almost 79), and the youngest was Emma, almost one. Fun was had by all. The whale watch produced great whale sitings. This New England family loved the lobster, clams, and barbecue chicken feast, as well as the other catered meals. Having time to share memories while creating new memories was priceless. Our deceased parents all smiled down upon us for making the effort to come together. Future generations of the Carter / Peabody clan will share in the family history that is now documented. Family makes life rich! Are you taking time to enjoy your extended family?

Joan & Stephen

Strategic Planning

We have enjoyed the last four days with friends doing strategic planning on our lanaii in Destin, Florida. Having a clear vision, mission, and strategic priorities provides a road map for growing a business. Similarly, having a strategic plan for the rest of your life allows you to navigate forward with less missteps and effort. Use the same approach with your life plan to get the best results. Failing to take the time to plan often leads to dissatisfaction during 'retirement years.'

Plan now to have the most fulfilling next chapter. Share your plan with others.

Joan

July 4th -- Independence Day

Life has many celebrations. Taking the time to enjoy each one is an admirable goal. At this life stage, we sometimes think we have seen it all. However, every year brings new nuances for important life events. Today, we are thinking and praying for all those serving this country in far away places as well as those stationed state side. Without their sacrifices, our independence and safety would be at risk.

As the fireworks begin, think about those proud servicemen and servicewomen. Let's celebrate their lives and those of their families. Yes, we are proud to be Americans. Let's think hard about what we can do to improve this nation for future generations. Our children's grandchildren deserve the best!

Sending you all the best on Independence Day!

Joan & Stephen

The Great Finale ... Rome

Rome was our last visit during a month's tour of France and Italy. What a fitting end to four weeks filled with culture, history, architecture, and wonderful people. The great foods and wines of France and Italy were thoroughly enjoyed which will result in much needed dieting. Every sip and morsel was worth it. At the end of the day, all we'll have are memories of life adventures ... and our precious relationships with loved ones.

I can't fully explain how much we were impacted by people we met along the way. I could tell you stories about Yvonne who helped at the villa in Tuscany, or the sweet neighbors that nodded and greeted us in Italian while out on our daily walks. How about Roberto who drove us around Rome bragging that he had been an outstanding driver for 35 years, then accidentally ran into a motorbike sending the man flying? We enjoyed 2 1/2 weeks of the trip with Valerie and Mike Thompson who proved to be great traveling companions sharing much of our interests in wine, food, and people. Sandy and Terry Bartow joined us for the week in Tuscany surprising us with their culinary expertise by creating marvelous lunches and dinners (all with local ingredients) at the villa. Spending time with new and old friends brought richness to our travels.

Most importantly, sharing this adventures with my soul mate, Stephen, was the best of all! We have been lucky to share so much of life together. The sharing part is what colors the experience. Do you have plans to share some life adventure with loved ones? It not, why not plan something special.

Joan

Making Memories

Spending a week cruising the Mediterranean from Nice to Rome was glorious.  Our tall ship held 280, with a Kosta Browne wine subgroup.  Our favorite stops included Portofino, Sardinia, and Elba.  The wine tastings in Bolgheri and onboard ship were memorable thanks to Dan Kosta..

Presently, we are spending a week in a villa bordering Tuscany and Umbria.  With our two couple friends, we are exploring cute towns like Assisi, Montalcino, Pienza, and Montepulciano.  Of course, we are managing to fit in some great wine tastings at producers like Banfi, Barbi, and other Brunello makers. 

Life in Tuscan towns are filled with beautiful scenery, delicious foods, and superb wines.  Life could not be better.  What are you doing to create great memories at this life stage?

Making Plans in France

Normandy was magical. The green fields with those notorious hedge rows were dotted with cows and sheep. The beaches of Normandy looked tame compared to what happened June 6, 1944 on D-Day. Imagine that we are currently celebrating the 64th anniversary of that historic event today. We encountered many families with older Dad's (in the 83-88 year range) that served. The American Cemetery brought tears to our eyes.

We stayed at a delightful Bed & Breakfast by the name of Le Manoir de Herouville (see www.herouville.biz). The proprietors are sisters (Sue and Lizzie), and their husbands (both named David). They have restored much of the beautiful 15th and 16th century manor house including a quaint guest cottage in the old pigeon tower. Lizzie loves to cook which meant the breakfasts were over the top. Interestingly, this was their 'what's next in your life' plan. Years ago, they planned to spend their retirement years in France's countryside. The Bed & Breakfast part emerged when they bought the property, and needed to fulfill reservations already made. They discovered that they enjoyed meeting interesting people from all over the world. Perhaps our lesson is that having a plan is important, but allow enough room for new opportunities to shape the final solution.

France is great!

Joan & Stephen

Adventure in Europe

We leave in 30 minutes for the airport for a month in France and Italy. Why go for only two weeks when we can cover much more territory in a month? We have been anticipating this adventure for some time. In preparation, I have been studying French as well as the wines in France and Italy. The adventure of travel coupled with the stimulation of architecture, archeology, art, history, culture, food and wine adds fuel to our souls.

We prefer independent travel away from the bustle of big cities. This trip will take us to Normandy, Burgundy, Provence, sailing on a tall ship from Monte Carlo to Rome (Portofino, Elba, Sardinia, etc.), and Tuscany. We will keep you posted on this adventure through this blog. Wish you could all be with us.

How about you? Are there places in this world that you need to explore? Write down a list of places you want to see while you are still able to travel. Then, don't procrastinate, plan your trip today. You'll never regret it!

Joan