Our Children

We are blessed to have four children between us. Even with our less than perfect parenting, all four have grown into productive adults that demonstrate great values. Our two eldest, Tish and Ty, are now doing the important work of raising their children (Tish—Sophie, age 8, and Isabel, age 5; Ty—Madison, age 7, and Taylor, age 6).

Our kids were raised to be independent which now means they are spread all over the U.S.--Washington, DC, Peachtree City, GA., Des Moines, IO, and Vancouver, WA. Staying involved in their lives demands frequent communication and travel. We have set a goal to try to visit each child/family 3-4 times per year which is an aggressive schedule. This precious time allows us to see their needs while strengthening our bonds.

Trying to support our children at this life stage takes perspective and balance. We respect their intelligence, resourcefulness and independence. Logically, they will face the ordinary challenges in their careers, families, and communities. Knowing when to help versus when our help isn’t ‘helpful’ is part of the balance. On the other hand, we take joy in celebrating their successes. Our children and grandchildren bring richness to our lives! In what ways do you want to enhance your involvement with your children and/or grandchildren?

Joan